Parenting this crew is the most challenging assignment I’ve ever been given!
You see each face there? They couldn’t be more different from each other if I tried.
The age difference between Dakota and the others is significant and that makes for an interesting dynamic.
I have some here who are tough as nails and some who crumble more easily.
Some who WILL NOT break down, and some who I’m desperately trying to keep put together.
Some who are fairly mature for their age and some who enjoy acting 2 (notice no one here is 2!!).
Some who have enough confidence for all of us, others who needs much more.
Some who need a lot of snuggle time, one who has a strict “don’t touch me” policy.
One who thinks girls are hot, the others know nothing of that yet. thankyouJesus!
One who is extremely shy, some who need boundaries with strangers.
There is not a food group that all 4 like and therefore it’s a guarantee that at least someone will be disappointed come dinnertime.
And what’s reasonable for the one is inappropriate for the others.
It’s enough to keep my head spinning and in a constant state of confusion.
But when I look at these kids (and it’s a perfect depiction of some of the dynamics I’m referring to!! Kota and Ramiro have a very different idea of “real funny”), I see the sweet spirits and tender hearts that they each have. And at the end of the day, I just want to protect that!
My children, like so many others, have had to overcome some pretty big obstacles the past several years, and I know it’s taken its toll. They each feel the gapping hole in our family picture so differently, but nevertheless, deeply. However, I am so proud of them and honored to be chosen for this journey, even if I don’t know which end is up most days!
and is new every morning!
